I shouldn’t dress like a hoochie??

Modesty is something that is definitely lacking in our society.  I’m not talking about how the prostitutes are starting to dress a little more revealing, I’m talking about the girls that go to church looking like they just walked out of the Candy Shop video.   But these young girls will try and say that they are just being “stylish”(because walking around half naked is so “in” right now).  Well Modesty doesn’t mean you have to dress like a nun!  Modesty doesn’t mean that you have to walk around in tons of clothes either.  So how do we define what is Modest?  As females we don’t find revealing clothes to be stumbling blocks to our purity, but Modesty isn’t for us.  The bible tells us that we are to  make sure we don’t do anything to make our fellow Christians stumble.   Guys happen to be very visual, and if you walk into church with your junk hanging out the front, it’s going to be very hard for them to focus on Jesus.  By being Modest, your respecting your Christian brothers purity so that he will respect yours.  So when we get dressed in the morning we need to ask ourselves,”Could my outfit arouse ungodly feelings in guys?”, and then get a second opinion from your dad!  Finally, your body is meant to be a gift for your husband, and Modesty is the wrapping.  When a gift is wrapped in nice shiny paper it creates anticipation, but there’s nothing exciting about getting a gift wrapped in plastic wrap.

We Objectify Ourselves!!

I’ve heard, and used to think that Men objectify Women, but the truth is that Women  objectify themselves.  I turned on the T.V and saw (what I’m guessing was) Rihanna in concert.  She was singing(duh) her hit songs.  When she did dance she would do nothing but shake her butt, and the crowd would go wild.  You see, Women have accepted being measured by how good we are at arousing ungodly feelings in Men (the world calls this being sexy).  So Men have no other option but to view us as nothing more than sex objects.  When I think about what some Women have lowered themselves to become, I almost feel ashamed to be a Women.  But I won’t let the World steal away the blessing of being a Woman.  I pray for the females  in or  generation…….

The Purity Po Po!

Purity Police See

I found this video about purity and thought it was funny. I hope it makes you laugh.

we are obsessed with sex!

I have decided that this generation has many names, but mainly we are the SEX generation. Why are we all so obsessed with sex? It is in everything now a days. It is in almost every movie, song, book, and in everything on tv. I mean come on, why do so many books today have to have sex in them. I’m really not that big into reading but this year I have a reading class and everyday we have to read so I have read a lot lately. I have noticed that a ton of books out there have sex in them, and I’m getting sick of it, if the author isn’t explaining the scene to you, then the characters are talking about it. I’m not trying to make myself sound like one of those holier than thou people who think you are horrible if you talk, listen, or read anything about sex, I’m just saying that why does so much of it have to be everywhere we go. That is the exact reason our generation knows nothing about purity, why many people aren’t striving to be pure, and why it is so hard for us to. Everything makes sex out of marriage sound fun and normal.

The main reason I am ranting and raving about this is because I found out that we have had a lot more views lately and they have been from our tag, sex. At first this made me really excited because we are getting more views, but then I thought about it and this proved my theory about this generation, that we are obsessed with sex. If we aren’t out there having it, then we are joking about it, or talking about it and I am not excluding anyone when I say this. This whole blog is partly about sex. I am not saying that talking about sex is bad, I am saying that talking about it in the wrong way is bad. I just wish it wasn’t everywhere we go.

Sex≠♥

“Sex does not equal love.”  Most people will tell you this and yet they live completely different.  A lot of people in our generation use sex to feel a sense of love or validation, but sex is not a way to get love.  Sex never = love!  In fact, love = sex, when proven by marriage.  Sex outside of marriage is the opposite of love, its selfishness.   The way to see if someone really loves you, is to  tell them you want to wait for  marriage.  But most people won’t do this because they are afraid of the truth; they would rather fool themselves into thinking they are in “love”.  So for all you people who want to know real love, put it through the only test that’ll tell, Purity.

What’s Sex?

You don’t have to explain this to me, but whenever the topic of virginity/purity comes up, we must ask for a definition of sex.  Why is this?  Is it because our generation is stupid? Of course not, but for some reason we like to play little technical word games when it comes to sex.  So now A-Y (things like fondling, oral sex, anal sex, etc.) are acceptable because they aren’t considered sex.  Which means you could do things that would shame a Democrat, but as long as you leave Z alone, you are technically still a virgin.  Our generation wants to rebel and gratify themselves; yet at the same time, they don’t want to be ashamed of what they’re doing, so they dull down what sex is.  How can we be real about the sexual nightmare our generation is in, if we can’t even be real about what sex is?!  So what are we to do in world that is so lost? We need to stand upon the word of God; and Christians,  flee from all that is impure and cling to the cross

  ^{Ephesians 5}

³But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people

Last, but not Least. Lets meet Guy#5!

Q: How long have you been a Christian?

A: 4 years

 

Q: Are you a virgin?

A: Yes

 

Q: Define purity or what it means to you.

A: Purity is keeping your mind as well as your body away from sexual things, such as lusting, porn,…..anything physical( kissing maybe). 

 

Q: How important is purity in the opposite sex?

A: It is important, but if she has screwed up, as long as she continues to strive for purity is what counts.  Its jut as important for guys as it is for girls. 

 

Q: Is purity a priority in your life?

A: Yeah, it is.  It’s harder for a guy to focus on purity because guys definitely focus on sex more as a society, which means it should be a bigger priority even though it’s a bigger struggle. I have to focus on it more than I would some other area of sin. 

 

Q: How does our society view purity?

A: Our society views purity as abstinence, which means you could have oral sex and still be saving your self.  They view sex as the only thing that’s impure. They portray women as something to be consumed.  

Society says: Women control Men with your sexuality, and Men objectify Women for their sexuality.

 

Q: Why do you think God has called us to be pure?

A: God wants u to be pure because intimacy isn’t just physical, its spiritual.  Sex is a covenant, so you are spiritually tied with the person you do sexual things with.  God doesn’t want us to be sexually tied with many people, just your spouse and God.

Introducing Guy #4!

Q: How long have you been a Christian?

A: 3 years

 

Q: Are you a virgin?

A: Yep

 

Q: Define purity or what it means to you?

A: To me it means more than not having sex, its living your life by Christ’s guidelines.

 

Q: How important is purity in the opposite sex?

A: 100%

 

Q: Is purity a priority in your life?

A: Yea, it’s a matter of respect because even people in the world hear you’re a virgin and respect you for it. 

 

Q: How does our society view purity?

A: It’s not important because the more people you sleep with the higher status you have.

 

Q: Why do you think God has called us to be pure?

A: It’s not only important for marriage, but if you’re not being pure, you’re sinning and being separated from God. 

Say Hello to Guy #3

Q: How long have you been a Christian?

A: 1 ½ years

Q: Are you a virgin?

A: no

Q: Define purity or what it means to you.

A: Purity is living separate from world and abstaining from sexual things and other sins.

Q: How important is purity in the opposite sex?

A: Very important. As Christians guy should be pure, and be looking for the same thing in a girl.

Q: Is purity a priority in your life?

A: Yeah. I make sure I avoid things I shouldn’t be around, like I have accountability program on my computer.

Q: How does our society view purity?

A: Very low. People don’t care, whether they’re Christians or non Christians. Even if Christians say they do care about purity, their lives show that they really don’t.

Q: Why do you think God has called us to be pure?

A: Well, everything that’s impure is related to sin so we need to be separate from the world and pick up our cross. The hardest things to keep away from violate our purity so if we stay away from them, we show our commitment to God.

Guy #2, Show us what ya got

Q: How many years have you been a Christian?

A:3 years                              

 

Q: Are you a Virgin?

A: Yes.

 

Q: Define purity or what it means to you.

A:Living a life for God by being a true Christian and living only for Him.

 

Q: How important is purity in the opposite sex?

A:Very important! A girl should be able to say to a guy, “I have waited for marriage.”

 

Q: Is purity a priority in your life?

A: Yes, because I want to be able to give that to my wife, and being a Christian, I want to show people that I live a life for God by being pure.

 

Q: How does our society view purity?

A: They feel if you want it you can have it, but if you don’t that’s fine.  Purity is not important or valued.  They agree with the, don’t have sex part but they don’t care about everything else. You can be a recycled virgin. 

 

Q: Why do you think God has called us to be pure?

A: Because God is pure and the definition of Christianity is to be Christ like.